Zezinho

I took Zezinho to the bus yesterday. He is moving to Mato Grosso, another state a few thousand kms away. Zezinho has been with us since we met under the mango tree here in Marabá. He gave his heart to Jesus during our first Cristovál event, in February 2009. He was 14 years old. Soon after he started to learn to play the drums, and joined the newly formed Vinha Worship Team, under Annika’s leadership. (Annika was 16). He has been at it ever since. For his last night in Marabá the worship team got together, set everything up, and played worship songs all evening.

Zezinho writes things on his Facebook like (and I am translating loosely) “Everything was set up for me to go bad, but God found me and changed my story,” and “God must have a lot of patience. He is still working on me. kkkkkk (the “k”s are Facebook laughing, in Portuguese)”.

Zezinho is a good example of “Centered Set” Christianity. “Bounded Set” thinking means you are either in, or you are out, based on whatever set of rules your group thinks are important. “Centered Set” says you are in if you are heading towards God. The direction of your heart is more important than your haircut, for example. Some people are born into “good” families. Maybe they are only a -10 away in their behaviour and appearance. Other people are born into more challenging situations. Maybe they are a -200 in what they think is normal, compared to what the Bible teaches us. Let’s say they both grow at the same rate. After a year the first person will be a -5, the second person will be a -100. Who grew the most?

About four years ago Zezinho’s dad moved out of their home. “Too much violence and drugs.” He moved across the river from us, and still comes over to watch a soccer game here at the church on the occasional Saturday. About three years ago Zezinho’s brother-in-law’s brother started coming to our Pre-Encounter meetings. We were all very happy. Then he got shot, and ended up in intensive care at the hospital. Zezinho’s sister’s husband decided, “I will take my brother’s place and go to this Encounter meeting, since my brother is in the hospital.” During the retreat week-end he told me, in all sincerity, “This has been the best week-end of my life. I can rest in the afternoon. I don’t have to worry if someone is going to come in my house and kill me.” During the Encounter week-end, his brother died in the hospital. A few weeks later the killers came after him. He narrowly escaped a round of bullets by jumping over a wall. I remember the brother-in-law’s mom was screaming and waving in front of the gunman shooting at her son. She only had two sons, and one was already in the ground. Both boys were in their mid-twenties. Zezinho’s sister and brother-in-law left town and have not come back.

In September 2010 Zezinho’s mom told me she was going to move into the house right by the front gate of our church. “It will be safer for me and my family. And I love the church.” She never did move. In November she was killed. Five bullets. Zezinho, of course, was in shock. He moved onto our church property. Ivanildo and Monica took him in a cared for him like he was their son. They helped him keep going to high school. They got him a job installing TV satellite dishes.

This is a small part of Zezinho’s story. He is moving to another town to visit his sisters. We hear they are now Christians. May God bless Zezinho with a good church that he loves, and with some good friends who will help him along the Way.

“Friends That Are Closer Than Brothers”